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First Responder Mental Health
Monday 24th Apr 2023My family has always had a calling for service. I am a U.S. Coast Guard veteran, my sister is a U.S. Army Veteran, my mother was an EMT and my father worked law enforcement for over 30 years. My father is my hero, it was growing up looking up to him that inspired me to serve my country and it's people at a young age.
My father is a 9/11 survivor.
My father was a witness to the atrocities of that day. He witnessed things no one should ever have to see. He lost people who he considered brothers. He spent days after digging in the ruins to help save who he can.
I always looked up to my father; always appearing tough, and stoic. Despite all of the terrible things he has witnessed, he always gave his 100% as a father, husband and investigator.
But as time passed, he explained how it was hard to suppress how he was feeling. He had always did his best to keep strong. But he knew deep down he wasn’t okay.
My father sought help. He was diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
The strongest man I know in my life needed help. He was strong enough to admit he was not okay.
There is a stigma in the service community to bottle up and suppress emotions. We witness horrible things and we believe it is expected to be brave and push through. While you might be able to do that for a while, you can only do it for so long.
Check in on your buddies, talk about how you feel. It’s okay to not be okay.
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I'll be riding for you, dad. Love you. I'm proud of you.
Absolutely Blessed
Friday 14th Apr 2023Almost half way there!! Thank you to all that have donated. God bless you all.
Did you know that we lose one man every minute to suicide? That’s over 500,000 men every year. Mental health is a complex issue which many struggle with. One life lost is too many. Do not suffer alone. Do not suffer in silence! It WILL get better. Please contact 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline if you’re struggling.
And you can always call/ message me.. I’m happy you’re here and I appreciate you. Please stay a while.
Thank You All!
Tuesday 11th Apr 2023Thank you to all that have sponsored me and have contributed donations towards the cause. It is moving to see the amount of people willing to help donate towards prostate cancer research and men's mental health.
This year, I have lost 2 friends to the battle within. It is common for men to hold back their feelings and emotions for numbers of reasons. Men are far less likely to seek therapy or other forms of help. It is so important to take care of yourself mentally and physically. It's okay to not be okay. It’s okay to talk about how you're feeling. Please seek help or call a friend if you’re considering suicide. Please don’t do it.
Be strong, hang in there. I’m happy you’re here. It WILL get better!
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I will be dedicating this ride to my 2 friends. May they rest in peace.
I'm Riding for Men's Health in The Distinguished Gentleman's Ride
Saturday 8th Apr 2023 On Sunday the 21st of May 2023, I'm riding in The Distinguished Gentleman's Ride with fellow men and women across the globe to raise funds and awareness for prostate cancer and men's mental health on behalf of Movember. Men die on average 6 years earlier than women and for largely preventable reasons. The number of men that are suffering is growing, and we need to do something about that. So, before I press my tweed and polish my boots, I'm asking you to join me in raising funds and awareness for these causes by donating what you can for this meaningful cause and to help the men we love, live happier and healthier lives.My Team
Hedon Helmets

Giovanni Reynoso

Maarten van Baars

François Guyomarch

Riccardo sbarboro

J R K

Irakli Bibileishvili

Peter Sexton

Joshua Roberts

Paul Martins

Mihai Horhoianu

Nurullah Aydin

Bruce Knopf

Martyn Hopkins

Nabeel Wali

Corneel Clarys

Iain Morphett

Martin Ostkop

Thad Gabryszewski

Ed Kavishe

Ron Rebuilds

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Stefan Ahlgren

Russell Hale

Robert Fowler

Mauricio De La Mora

Stefania Schito

Joe Sterling

Nicholas Forcelli

Stefano Quadri

Andrey Yazovskikh

Sedat YILMAZ

Ian Wile

Leewang Tobgay

Cas Pelger

Jan Fors

Javier Omedes

Morten Stene

Brad White

JUNZO KURODA

Edward Fink

Derick Carmona

Kahrimanovic Dijan

Stevie Huntzinger

Jigz Carolino

Josh Wright

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Tom Ward

Vasanth Jacob

Andrew Poeluev

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Clive Kimpton

Tyler Regan

Cédric Batifoulier

Ernest Michalski

Alastair Adams

Γιώργος Τουλιος

Alun Bevans

Arthur Bogossian
My Sponsors
John Colgan
Good luck to you!
$441 USD
Evan Perez
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Steven Shanker
Happy to support you in your honorable mission. Keep the rubber side down.
$260 USD
Marcelino Lopez
Happy to support a great cause.
$222 USD
Judy Khoury
Nick, I’m so proud of you and am happy for the opportunity to support you and such an important and meritorious cause.
$108 USD
Peter Forcelli
Nice gesture!
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Anthony Profeta
Good luck & blessings.
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Katherine & Mike Eippert
Thank you for your service!
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Thomas R Joyce
#godspeed
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Christie Adams
Wishing you the best. Love,Christie q
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Edward Rodriguez
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Pamela Profeta
Good luck
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Nelly
Nicholas- It is an honor to donate to such a worthy case. I worked with your Dad in the early 90’s. He was a mentor to so many. His professionalism and dedication to duty left such a deep profound impact in my LE career as well as so many others. I know you make your dad proud. I want to wish you the very best on your future endeavors. Best, Nelson
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Claire Delaney
This is a great thing you are doing...good luck and ride safe.
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Dave Mather
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Rianna Forcelli
We’re so proud of you, Nick! - Jeff and Rianna
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Ana Roldan
Good luck Nick!! ❤️
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Miles Sonn
Great cause🇺🇸🇺🇸
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Carlos Gonzalez
Go Nick!
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Katarina O’Connor
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Anonymous
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Tony Falcone
Good luck Nick!
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Anonymous
Your Dad's a great one and it's clear the apple doesn't fall far from the tree! Bob Jenney (I work with your Dad at Amazon)
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Bailey Colyar
So proud of you Nick! Spreading awareness is key! 🙌🏼✨
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Anonymous
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Anonymous
I’m so proud of you and your accomplishments
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Steven Link
Adversity builds character. Best Regards, Steven
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Julie Paul
So proud of you!
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Saadulla
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Joe Butler
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Ann Marie
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John Cooney
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Irene Carrasquillo
I'm so proud of you Nick! XO
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Angie Rogers
Good Luck Nick! Praying for a safe ride! We love you! Angie, Mike, Alena and Mason
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David Kveton
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Louie Montana
I appreciate you brother.
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Peter Brown
Great event !!! Peter, you raised him well!!
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Bryan & Lauren Gassenmeyer
Good luck!
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John Nokes
Great cause! Enjoy the ride.
$50 USD
Corey Hill
$42 USD
Nicholas Forcelli
$36 USD
Nikki Falcone
Best of Luck Nick!!! Xo
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Eileen Martinez
$21 USD
Noreen Forcelli
Proud of you!
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Dominic J. Arcuri
Good luck! Great way to show love for others.
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Aloha
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Ashley McChesney
Great way to raise awareness! Enjoy the ride.
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Chris Crowell
Great cause!
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Deb Underwood
Hey Nick. Nice that you are doing that. Miss you🥰
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Anonymous
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Joseph Palmquist
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Amy Beach
Good luck!