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Re-post from Los Angeles Team member Jason Green

Thursday 6th

Rest In Peace, JBB

Earlier this week I learned that one of my closest friends, an old roommate from college who I had many grand adventures with - most of which can never be shared publicly due to legal and moral implications (hah!) passed away in late April due to complications resulting from a gastrointestinal disorder.

So, this has been a tough week.  I learned of it through email from his step dad, who's a friend as well.  But as a result I became the person responsible for reaching out to much of our friend group.  Old college friends (from two colleges), personal friends from other walks of life as well that I got to know over the years.  Over and over I was responsible for relaying the story, for bearing the emotional brunt of their discovery of this horrible tragedy.  It's been exhausting, emotionally, but also physically.  I'm tired.  I'm wrung out.  My eyes burn.  My stomach hurts.  

But this isn't about my mental health. It's about his.  See, what he had was treatable.  I don't know exactly what medications were being prescribed to him, but as someone who's suffered from acid reflux (a version of what he suffered), I know that most of the medications are pills, and the side effects are few, if any.

But my friend wasn't one for rules and authority.  He wasn't one to be told what to do.  He was a self-described rock, an emotional stoic, who never showed pain, physical or emotional.  In all our time together I never saw him angry, or sad, or anything but exuberant and ready to party.

He also did what so many men do when they are struggling; he kept it to himself.  Even the last time we spoke, in late December, he never said a word.  He'd have been very ill at that time, but he didn't mention it, didn't talk about how it was impacting him, didn't seek advice, or sympathy.  He just bottled it up and kept going.

That's not good mental health.  When he got sick, his immediate reaction was to ignore it, to pretend it wasn't an issue, to refuse to show weakness.  He was, after all, a rock.  Like so many of us, programmed to show no pain, no fear, no emotion.

And it killed him.  Something that was imminently treatable took down my friend - caused him to starve himself to death in a camper in the mountains of North Carolina because his masculinity was threatened by weakness, so he did what so many of us do: pretend it didn't exist.  Suffer through it in silence.

So this year, I'm riding for Jonah.  I miss him.  He was my friend, and this year's ride is going to be tough because he's gone.

Last word: if you're sick, emotionally, physically, spiritually, whatever - don't keep it to yourself.  Help is out there.

Win a Guang helmet

Saturday 10th

The rider on the team who raises the most money wins a Guang helmet. 

 

“The helmet is a nice little thing bonus. Not doing this for the prizes though. I have men in my family that are prostate cancer survivors. One of my uncles died do to an overdose on heroine because of his depression and unable to cope with life events. So this hits very close.  But if I win the helmet then that's 💪🏼💪🏼.” - Charlie Solo 

Join our team for The Distinguished Gentleman's Ride!

Wednesday 31st

On Sunday the 23rd of May, we are teaming up to ride in The Distinguished Gentleman's Ride with fellow men and women across the globe to raise funds and awareness for prostate cancer and men's mental health on behalf of Movember.

Men die on average 6 years earlier than women and for largely preventable reasons. The number of men that are suffering is growing, and we need to do something about that. So, before we press our tweed and polish our boots, we are asking you to join us in raising funds and awareness for these causes by donating what you can for this meaningful cause and to help the men we love, live happier and healthier lives.

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Cancer sucks. Have a great ride, folks.

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Ride well my brother!! 🤙🏽

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Thanks for spreading awareness friends - it definitely plagues a lot of us vets.

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